Coaching and Training
the Leader within Each of Us

Action Learning Newsletter - November 2006


CONTENTS:

  1. LEADERSHIP LESSONS: from teams, 2 ratios, and Great Expectations
  2. DEAR COACH: tips for your success
  3. ACTION STEPS AHEAD: serving others, confronting challenges, and you

1. LEADERSHIP LESSONS

A. From Teams.
Last week I led a retreat for CEOs in the colorful mountains of Blowing Rock, NC. Two lessons emerged. 1) Team performance increased when individual performance increased. Each person's role, and activity, contributed to the team's strategy and execution. The winning teams each kept to their role as a leader or a follower. 2) Learning points occurred every time someone did an unfamiliar activity. Whether sharing feedback from a 360 review, or edging backward over a cliff on a thin rope belay, the unfamiliar activity led to learning. Makes me wonder how often I support my team by doing something less familiar.

B. 2 Ratios.
Last month I interviewed a Sales VP from a mutual fund company. He said that the skills that make him unique include product knowledge and practice management. When pressed, he offered this best practice tip: Determine who pays you, determine how many hours/day you can work, then create two ratios. For instance, imagine that you get 80% of your revenue from a specific group of clients, and it requires 6 hours/day of customer service. If your daily revenue is $1,000, your revenue ratio is $1000/6 or $166/hr. That is how you make your money. The second ratio is an expense ratio, the amount of money/hour you need to service your customers. In our example, imagine that you need 4 hours/day to service those customers and your average expense/customer is $100/day. A best practice tip is to decrease your expense ratio, increase your revenue ratio, or do both. He has learned to measure each ratio over time. When he schedules 800 appointments/year, he knows the average value of each hourly appointment. What would it take for you to determine yours?

C. I recently saw an interpretation of Great Expectations, by Charles Dickens. It reminded me of some lessons for business leaders. If you recall, the ambitious young boy becomes infatuated with Estella, a cold-hearted beauty. Lessons include:

  1. Stay on course, following your passion, even when your dream is elusive
  2. Keep your faith that money is available, even when you seem to have less than others
  3. Learn who your benefactor (client) is, then serve him (them)
  4. Develop your strengths, your gifts, until you are the best in your class
  5. Remain humble, despite all your great expectations, because life will bring surprises

2. DEAR COACH

We have been working together for 18 months and in that time my business has grown 160% Last month was my best ever, almost doubled in revenue. I should be feeling happy I guess. However, I still have trouble focusing on what I can control. And I have trouble celebrating. What can I do?

Dear Coachee: As you know, your business growth is a result of all the work you have been doing. Those focused actions have been difficult. Some days are a net loss. Many days are a net win. When you defined your plan, then focused on your points, you found more clients and revenue. There is a relationship between our feelings and our results. One way to think of that relationship is as a series of lines from feelings to thoughts to actions to results. Celebration is an expression of feeling, like a shout for joy. Some people have no desire to celebrate life. But you do! I remain confident that you will determine the answers you need, and express the feelings you need, as you need to do so. Coaching is all about focusing on where you are now and moving toward where you want to go next. When you are confident, focused on your successes, you are even more attractive to your prospects. The results will follow.

Some coaching questions for you include: How does it feel to grow your business? What is worth celebrating?


3. ACTION STEPS AHEAD: serving others, confronting challenges, and you

A. Serving Others.
Last Saturday, Action Learning Associates hosted a charity fundraiser for Diabetes research. 26 people participated in an adventure racing clinic and a 3-hour race including canoeing, mountain biking, and orienteering. Local sponsors included 3 retail stores, a magazine, 5 experienced support people, and Lake Norman State Park. We raised $705 for diabetes, which may help some of my family members. But a participant said it best, "Every dollar counts. We are close to finding a solution. When we work as a team, whether racing or in any aspect of life, we are always stronger than when we are alone. Thanks for your contributions!"

B. Confronting Challenges.
Last week, Team Action-Learning.com and 93 others from all over the world were on ESPN2 and ABC Sports' coverage of Primal Quest 2006 in Moab, Utah. This 450-mile course took us 9 days to finish. The images are sensational. Several clients have re-started exercise programs or re-focused on professional goals as a result of this footage. I'm reminded of Margaret Mead's famous quotation, "Never doubt the power of a small group of thoughtful, committed people to change the world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has." Makes me wonder what challenges you and your team need to confront.

C. And you.
Lately several coaching clients have been concerned about taking care of their health. Many of us tend to think of health as a physical entity, and tend to notice when we have poor health. And as we age we notice the effects of not maintaining our health. Like cascading water, poor health affects emotional, cognitive, and spiritual aspects of our lives. So does good health. I appreciate the wisdom in Dr. Andrew Weil's Healthy Aging (2005). He has many practical tips for controlling the affects of aging. Thankfully, we can always improve our lifestyle choices. Prevention does pay off. If you study the effect of obesity on the US, one shocking reality is that the wealthy are now making more healthy lifestyle choices including regular exercise, balanced meals, and adequate sleep. Everything we were taught as children. The fat and happy "Robber Baron" is now living on the beach and working out. In contrast, obesity is associated with diets that are high in cholesterol and inactive lifestyle choices. I care about you. And I encourage you to take care of your physical health!


HOMEWORK

I recently asked two children (over breakfast) if they would rather be happy or right. One leaped up and shouted, "Happy!" The other stood firm and said, "Right!"

Which would you rather be, happy or right?


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